Empathy can be only understood when found in our personal programming code...

Empathy can only be achieved

if the similar experiences, whether those are positive or negative

have been experienced by the people that these trying to be communicated.

Its like giving instructions to a computer language such as SQL.

If the instructions are not already found in the compiler,

SQL will not be able to recognise those and will bring an error.

If SQL is asked to select the variable joy and that does not exist in the tbl_experiences,

then an error will pop up as this variable will not be able to be identified or related.

What ever we experience in life positive or negative,

this constructs our own programming code.

If we experienced a certain type of joy, 

such as the birth of a baby or giving affection to our pets,

this then will be inserted in our experiences repository.

If we experienced a certain type of sadness,

such as the loss of a loved one or failing an exam,

this then will be inserted in our experiences repository.

We can relate to other individuals

if only and only if,

those experienced the same items 

and have those built in their personal programming code.

With ♥ for philosophy,

Ziuζs  

The world is the ultimate reflection of ourselves...

From the moment that we are born,
our inner world is exposed
to internal forces
that are always fighting against each other
in the internal battle of the good vs evil.


This battle governs our life on the whole.
The ultimate aim is to achieve balance and inner harmony.
And to accept that evil will always be there so as good.


The same battles coexist in the groups that we are part of
our family, our society, our country, our world...


When will this world find it's harmony?
When each individual will find his/her own personal harmony.
It's each individual's obligation and responsibility to do so.
By improving ourselves, we can improve the word.

With ♥ for philosophy,

Ziuζs  

Self discovery does not require travelling that far after all...

 N.B. In order to truly understand and/or feel the above, its a prerequisite to have lived in other country or place than your hometown... 

With ♥ for philosophy,

Ziuζs  

Be yourself

Wherever we are, some people will adore us...

* just for our smile 

* or maybe for that blink in our eyes

* or just love our messy hair

* or just for our style & the way we look

* or just love our humour or clumsiness

* or just adore our amazing ideas or stupid moments

* or just adore our soul or inner thoughts

* or just love the 'whole package' of being ourselves...

& equally some other will not love us that much...

* maybe for the same reasons

* or maybe for some other

* or maybe they just wish for something more that we don't have

* or we have but we just don't want to share

* or maybe they just don't want to try to understand us & they just see or want to see a different you...

Maybe they are strange for us or maybe we are strange for them

or maybe we both need time to understand each other & see the real selves. Or maybe it is more simple than it looks & there is nothing we can do except of accepting that that's the way it is...  because we can only "be ourself & that is all that we can do"!

& maybe what Andre Gide says its true, that "It's better to be hated for what you are than to beloved for what you are not." It might be risky but you will be true... Because even if you are mostly hated there is a chance to eventually find someone that loves the true you... or even if you are mostly loved there be a chance to be loved even further!

Audioslave - Be Yourself

With ♥ for philosophy,

Ziuζs